AFTER THEENCORE.Post a connection
GOOD CROWDS LOOK OUT FOR EACH OTHER.

A second hello.
Never an obligation.

Adults only

You and the person you are seeking must both be 18 or older.

Post a real interaction

Describe a shared moment. Do not use the site to identify, locate, or track someone you watched from a distance. No impersonation, fabricated encounters, advertisements, or scams.

Leave personal details out

No full names, phone numbers, email addresses, social handles, home or work addresses, or photographs of strangers.

Respect a no—or no reply

No harassment, threats, sexual content, demands, or repeated unwanted contact. A person can choose not to reply or to stop a conversation.

Help keep the board useful

Report posts containing private information, harassment, spam, or anyone under 18. Block unwanted conversations. A moderator can hide a reported post from the board.

Keep your own boundaries

A recognition answer is a clue, not identity verification. Take your time. Never send money, account codes, or documents to prove who you are.

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