A thoughtful way to reconnect after a show
Treat a reply as a new conversation. A shared detail can help you recognize someone, but it does not verify identity or create any obligation to continue.
Keep the first exchange on the site
Use the private reply and author response rather than putting contact details in your post. Your email and sign-in name are not shown on the board. The current version uses a private reply and an editable author response, not an unlimited live chat.
Use your own memory, not pressure
Someone may know the song or stage without being the person you met. Take your time. A request for money, verification codes, personal documents, or immediate off-platform contact is a reason to stop the conversation.
Let boundaries be simple
You can choose not to respond. If you do respond and change your mind, you can say so without explaining yourself. Do not keep contacting someone who has declined or gone silent.
Report and block when needed
Report a post that contains private information, harassment, spam, or someone under 18. Reporting hides it from your board and places it in the moderator’s queue. Blocking hides the other person’s posts and conversations from you. This service is not an emergency channel.
If you choose to meet
Choose a public place and arrange your own transportation. Tell someone you trust your plan. Keep your personal information limited until you feel comfortable, and leave if anything feels wrong.
Close the loop
Close your connection when you no longer want replies. Delete it if you want the post and its associated replies and reports removed from the app. Active posts leave the public board after 60 days; that expiration does not itself delete the stored record.